Steve and Martin this is the only way to make this good but i will update this for you if you can give me cPanel Access for the site i only need 30 minutes to transfer the widgets from old to new site and make all as it is. I will make a site in folder and when you confirm that update is done great i will transfer it to the main site.
If you agree post your site url, username and password, and also cPanel access in secure tab and i will do the update in day or two and don't worry i will not erase anything!
For posting sensitive information you hit the Blue Reply Button and then you will see Secure Tab. Post all info that is sensitive in there, only Fellow Mods, Staff and I can see that!
Steve you need to restore the database prior to the update, this will not happen in the future just this update 4.1.10 is problematic as it fixes stuff in the database for future cases so this does not happens again...