Unable to comment on template... too busy looking at content... I don't think this necessarily qualifies for "Site of the Month" but it certainly qualifies for "Site NAME of the Month"!!!! I Love It!
The front page loads in an organized fashion for me in FF on 19" 1280x1024 monitor. I confess though that I have no idea what the site is about (might be because I went straight for the videos... I'm such a cad.) You might want to move the two horizontal menus around and put a "Join My Site Because..." area up there... unless this is the sort of thing that you are a member of because you know you're supposed to be a member ;D
As I move deeper into the site though, the navigation gets harder but I think that might just be because you don't have much content out there yet.