didn't thought you would really start from zero
I like this idea so we can discuss a lot of things you know. There are so many features and customization that if you don't discuss then you never know if you are doing the right thing.link to a tutorial regarding specific changes to gantry
The only tutorial that I know are in the gantry website:
www.gantry-framework.org/documentation
There is where I have learned to customize it.
Also there are a few very cool posts in this forum you need to learn where o find them, make sure that you are present and that you bookmark the posts when you find them, for example I know there is a tutorial to change the menu item to open page direct to rokbox(modal)
That's cool.Like adding a 3 cloumn, mean left, or right sidebar.
This is the tutorial to add more position to the template, works for me:
www.gantry-framework.org/documentation/j...ing-module-positions
Also Henning has a few cool tutorials himself a think how to change the WIDTH of the entire template, make sure you follow him, his last website is GURU stuff 
hmmm wonder why it should not be possible to use different menus based on "per-menu-item-settings"?
Yes is does, I think what you mean is that you can customize the Layout per menu item correct? The problem is only this one, when you enter the template settings that first layout you set in the Standards for the entire project, is how the template will act when you don't define custom settings per menu item. Of course you can override them but I don't want to do that if I don't have to. I set up my 1 column default with, then my default 2 column width and that's it, does are my standards.login.php in the features folder how to do that. Heh I'm off to breakfast now

Nice I will.Heh I'm off to breakfast now

My turn know I need a bucket of coffee.